#AstroSpeak Why You Are So Hard To Get, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

by Sejal Parikh · December 6, 2016

“I’ll always wonder what time it is there; if you’re dreaming, or awake. My moon is your sun; my darkness, your light.
I’m in the future, you’d jokingly say.
And I know where you are, because I’m watching you from the past.”
― Coco J. Ginger

No, we aren’t talking about those silly games. Nobody’s playing ‘hard to get’ here. However, inevitably the phrase sticks on because people find it difficult to break through a ‘tough exterior.’ Don’t throw away the garb, girl. Not just yet. Remember that the best games are those that amp up the thrill all the way to the top. You shall not give up on being you just because some people content themselves with being the ones that contend you tossed’em away. And you know the truth- they didn’t have it in’em to go all in and understand why you wear that armour.

Sometimes, being hard to get proves to be a good thing- because you find those willing to make the effort to get to know you, inside out. And those are the ones worth finding and keeping, right? On other occasions, it may prove wise to prune some of the difficulties these ‘good souls’ might encounter on the way- and you can only do that if you know why you are so hard to get in the first place. We can help you find answers, your zodiac gave us clues:

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

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You are an adventure-lover and your spirit is so fiercely energetic that you need much more than just the normal cliché dating rounds before you fall for someone. It takes way more than dinner and drinks to get you hooked onto someone. You crave fun and seek thrill in every aspect of life and your motto is, “Why stop for this then!”

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

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You are so genial, kind and affectionate to everyone that no matter how hard people try, it’s going to be next to impossible to make you feel more compassionate towards them. It will take a hell lot of effort on their part to build a relationship with you on a more emotionally intimate level then you have with others.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

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Your cheerful, chirpy and vibrant self is bound to win hearts and it always does. But very few people own the patience to know your inner, deeper and darker side- the side that’s always hidden from the world in which you’re always surrounded by friends. It takes a very particular person to gauge your not-so-bubbly side and still want to protect the vulnerable-you.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

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You have a great insight into people’s minds and their working. Your instinct and hunch is so fierce and strong that no person would ever succeed in creating an impact on you if they’re merely playing games on you or if they’re not being their own selves. So, it is going to be really tough to win over your intuitions.

Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22)

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You have certain and standards and a benchmark that you’ve set for people. If someone falls short of your expectations, then your boldness is a proof that you’re fearless enough to walk away and stay on your own for a while. You also enjoy spending time with yourself making it all the more difficult for people to get a hold on you.

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22)

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You belong to that class of people who are not easily impressed or satisfied. So those who are thinking to keep their best efforts at bay to woo you are under a fatal misconception that you’ll be easy to catch. A point to note when dating you is that mediocre and moderate commitment will reap no sweet fruits in sweeping you off you feet.

Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22)

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You have a lot of options to choose from when it comes to romantic suitors. You have no scarcity in options for a relationship. But the problem with you is that you have earnest and intense connections with many people, so much that you don’t want to settle in for just one. That ways, it always becomes tough to get you.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)

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You always know what you want in life and what you don’t. Being bold and brave is one of the main characteristics of a Scorpio. Thus, you are not afraid to walk out of any relationship if it does not help you grow. You face absolutely no difficulty in moving away from something if you’re unhappy with it.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)

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You are candid and honest, always straightforward. Regarding various issues, you always like to comment based on your perception. Such a frankness and honesty can make people thrilled and excited and at the same time, terrifying and frightening, thereby making your availability next to impossible.

Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19)

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Your rationality and practicality are so strong and powerful that if people treat you in a wrong manner, then no matter how much you like them, you’ll leave no stones unturned to walk away. Moreover, if they do not think of compromising to come to an agreement for both sides’ will, then you will no more see a reason to stay.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)

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You are very careful and vigilant with your emotions. You’re so guarded about your emotions that it takes a very special kind of person to see through you and hold you through thick and thin- a person that incredibly special who can make you want to open up and let go of your distant and reserved self when it comes to relationships.

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)

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You let your past experience overshadow your present, thus letting it interfere with and tangle your present decisions. You seem to trust a lot in previous relationships; so if you’ve been hurt before, you might end up making a wrong choice based on that past which holds no value in the present. Due to trust issues, it’s also hard for you to relax, open up and talk freely and frankly.

If you, too, have felt misconstrued because people write you off as ‘hard to get,’ wait it out, coz the right person would let you know that every bit of the effort was worth it!

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