If you ever wondered why it fell apart when you could possibly see nothing wrong happening at all, you may just have to revisit the memories and check if he’d had that foot outside the door even before he announced he was leaving. Maybe he’d had the breakup in his head, replayed what’d come to pass over and over, rehearsing his last lines, playing out the final goodbye countless times before the thunderbolt struck you out of the blue.
And what he didn’t say was “it IS YOU,” because he didn’t have the balls to. But you could see it in his eyes. If you need answers, your zodiac has a potent key to unlocking those doors he held barred in his eyes. Only if you are ready to find the answers and face them.
Know that this does not mean you cannot be loved for who you are, with all your good and bad, strengths and weaknesses, plus-es and minus-es- but only that he didn’t have the gumption to. Here are the reasons for breakup that got under your skin happened as it did, with the “it’s not you, it’s me” lie. Your zodiac says:
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Aries (March 21 – April 19)
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Your independence and self-involvement could stretch to frustrating levels and this might create a rift between the two of you. A step or two in the direction of your partner when he is more than willing to meet you halfway is necessary and when you fail to walk ahead, he steps back.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Your stubborn streak doesn’t cease from haunting you here as well. You hold grudges longer than is necessary and stretch out the anger/hurt you feel even after an apology has been placed up. This can be especially draining on the other person.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Your refusal to be pinned down even in a committed monogamous relationship might be one of the primary reasons for a fallout you could say, you never saw coming. But you had it coming, right when you waltzed your way out of his arms and into the circle of friends you spot with an ‘interesting’ new member.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
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Your caring nature could easily morph into clinginess in a relationship, and the deeper your affection grows, the more intense your possessiveness becomes, smothering your partner in love.
Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22)
Although you are extremely loyal, your insatiable need to be on the top of the game requires you to win every debate or argument so that your vanity and ego are fueled. While this may be a satisfying process to you, it can get tiring for your partner.
Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22)
Analysis and skepticism, together, are lethal for relationships. Mulling over the smallest of things in one’s head and blowing it to especially magnified proportions is your specialty. A small doubt could make you deem the relationship impossible. This may cause you to end a relationship even if the trivial problem can be fixed with a small step.
Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22)
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Being especially social, you believe you can ‘fix’ your partner to become who you need, rather than who they are. And I don’t think I need to tell you that’s a ready reckoner for inviting a fallout.
Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)
You can be so controlling and suspicious that it can have your partner dashing for the door in no time.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)
With ridiculously high expectations, you may find yourself disgruntled when your partner fails to live up to them. This may sow seeds of resentment that may flare up into a fallout.
Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19)
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Since you are untrusting and wary of all people, it takes a strong and resilient partner to break through your walls, earn your trust and claim what’s on the inside. Unfortunately, not many are up for the uphill battle and you do not volunteer to be an ally either.
Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)
Blunt, unapologetic and brutally honest, this endearing trait of yours can fast turn into a hotbed of contention. Think many are up for the challenge? Perhaps, not.
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Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)
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Being the most emotional of all signs, you often project your longing for an ex or your unrequited feelings of love onto a new partner, which isn’t fair!
Could you relate these reasons for breakup with yours? Tell us in the comments below.
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