A player hides himself very well, but did you know, if you consult his horoscope and look for behavioral clues, then you can catch him? As soon as you start suspecting that your guy is shady, don’t worry about how to know if he is a player. Just look closely and see if he is exhibiting any of the qualities that are mentioned here under his zodiac. If he is, then I am afraid your doubts are not off beam.
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Sometimes, when a guy is only playing you and does not care a bit about you, the signs are right there, blinking at you. However, there are some guys who can really conceal their real desires well. With this guide, nonetheless, you can detect a player, easily.
Once you establish that they are only taking advantage of you, and have no intention of settling down with you, then you need to first talk to them about it. Ask them to come off clean, because, there are some who are dealing with some serious emotional issues, and may be you can help them out. And there are those who are jerks, plain and simple. No matter which category this player of yours belongs to, you need to stop dating them immediately, because, otherwise, it is going to have a big negative effect on your self-esteem.
When you are aware of the fact that your partner is a player, you are in a power position to remove them from your life before they do much damage. Also, it will teach them a must-needed lesson that their behavior is not acceptable, and that you love yourself and respect yourself too much to be taken for a ride.
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Here is how to know if he is a player based on his zodiac.
Aries
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If an Aries guy is playing you, the it is likely that his behavior will be all over the place. While in one moment it will feel like he cannot imagine his world without, in the next moment, he will behave like you do not exist. This weird behavior is because he does not care even a bit about your feelings. He is treating you like a doormat, and it is best if you dump him now.
Aries men who play women tend to be very sweet when they need something from their girls. But as soon as you give them what they want, they will tur their face away from you. It is best if you let go right now.
Taurus
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A Taurean when playing a woman, does not call her by her name even when the two are with people who are just random crowd. If that is the case with you and your Bull, then there is some bad news. He does not call you by your pet name all the time because it is endearing. He does it because he is scared to death that he will spill out the name of the other woman he is going out with. Also, he does not want to spend time and energy memorizing your name, because it means nothing to him. Now, why would you want to continue with such a horrible person? Get rid of him ASAP!
Gemini
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Gemini’s are really good at weaving a yarn, but if you notice that the story that he has told you about his life keeps changing, then you have problem, my friend. It is either that his entire life tale is a lie or he has only changed a few portions for you. Either way, he is not a reliable guy, and certainly not a guy you should be dating.
Don’t just dump him, tell him that you saw straight through his lies, s that he does not repeat the same thing with some other girl.
Cancer
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A Cancerian is playing you if he constantly defends himself whenever you accuse him of something. He will turn his back on you as soon as you tell him you have something serious to talk him about.
He will constantly act like a victim, and even he was not playing you, how suffocating it is to date a guy like that! Just ask him to leave!
Leo
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A Leo is usually full of himself, and he leaves no stone unturned while praising himself. If your Lion is constantly telling you tall tales about himself, especially about what kind of women he has ‘bagged’ in the past, then there is a very high chance that he is doing the same thing with other women, where he talks about you as his past prey.
This guy is too self-centered to make someone else the center of his life. If you call him out on this, then he is most likely to not even see your point. The best thing: Dump him!
Virgo
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A Virgo guy is playing you if he applies one or all of the following tricks:
He mimics whatever you say
He takes time to tell you what he feels because he is building up a strong fallacy
When he says what he says, it is very hard to believe (because he’s lying, obviously!)
If he really loved you, would he need such stupid tricks to bond with you? Think about it!
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Libra
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How to know if a Libra is playing you? Simple, he will never offer you a straight answer. Also he will avoid looking you in the eye and answering critical things like where he’s been or who he was talking to because he us hiding his other girls from you!
He is not wanting to lock his eyes with yours because you will see right through them, but you have anyway, so why not ask him to leave right now! 
Scorpio
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He is mostly very indifferent to what you say and what you do. There is this intense apathy that you are likely to feel. It is because he is playing you and does not want to get too attached. Scorpio men, when they get attached tend to get really protective and loyal, and also a tad bit jealous. If this guy seems to be chilled about everything, then he is probably playing you, darling.
Sagittarius
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This guy will promise you things, and deliver on *wait for it*, none. This is because he promises to get you to like him more, but he has no intention on coming through with them because he doesn’t care! He is not just playing you, he is also being extremely disrespectful of you, don’t you think? He is toying with your feelings, and you do not deserve a douchebag of a man like this.
Capricorn
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He will take you on lavish dates, order the best of dishes and the best of wines, and then, make you pay for it, Every Single Time. I know you might say you are an independent woman and you don’t need a man who pays for you, but the man should pay for himself, don’t you think? He is ungenerous and does not want to spend for the time that he is spending with you.
Aquarius
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Whenever you tell him about how you think he is playing you, he will accuse you of being crazy. He expects you to put up with his horrible behavior, and then blames you for it This guy is an *ssh*le you need to get rid of as soon as you can. He is manipulative and will emotionally abuse you. Unless you have a peanut-sized self-esteem, you don’t need a guy like this in your life, especially not as your lover.
Pisces
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This guy is extremely imaginative, and so he will tell you every thing about himself, all the little details. This is his way of playing with you. He thinks, if he gives you all the small little heart melting stories about himself you will think he really loves you and trusts you to be telling you such personal details. Well, it is all a ploy!
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