Women and girls tend to read more novels than men. Yet both genders watch films, or movies as we now know them. Men in particular are visual creatures, enjoying nothing more than to lie back on the couch and immerse themselves in a good movie. But have you ever thought about watching a seductive movie with your partner? Once you overcome the initial feelings of Yuck, I’m not into adult movies, and all those personal body issues, including, “I don’t look like that,” you might find that watching an erotic movie with your partner leads you to discussing more than just the movie, when the curtains are drawn.
Communication between couples is the cornerstone of any meaningful relationship. Everyone harbors intimate desires and sexual feelings. The key is to engage with your partner to ascertain what their fantasies, desires, and sexual needs are. To start where they are at, and explore these intimate thoughts together. Adult cinema is a wonderful way to embark on this journey on how to improve your sex life.
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These days, there are a plethora of adult movies on offer, ranging from softcore stuff, as it is referred, to traditional adult websites, including such categories as mature, lesbian, hard core, bdsm, teens, and even interracial ones. Yet there is a new wave of erotic sites in play on the web that are specifically designed for couples, including subscription services such as frolicMe.com, where couples can watch stylish cinema in their own homes at a competitive monthly rate. These films are a sea of sensuality in which couples perform intimately together in a myriad of stylish locations throughout Europe. Beautiful apartments in Prague, Italy, and London are set up to their own theme of either Christmas, bath time, swing time overlooking the park, or even the change room at the gym. The plots are professionally written by some of the most famous erotic authors, with each movie having its own gorgeous leading players. One of my favorites is Pizza Play, in which the gorgeous leading lady has some fun playing with the sourdough and powder as she slowly guides us through the art of making pizzas, or should I say, the art of seduction.
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Couples are able to view beautifully shot movies together that highlight not just intimacy between couples, but a range of different sexual positions, including missionary, oral and even back door ones. They are able to view movies highlighting varying sexual preferences, such as self-pleasure, lesbian, threesomes, and even spy films where a third person engages in watching a couple make love.
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The exciting part of watching the movie is not just that you may become aroused, or turned on, it’s that you become turned on together. That you are sharing this intimate experience together. The consolation prize is that you may well discover more about what it is that turns your partner on during the process.
“Really, I didn’t think you’d like that!”
“Would you like me to wear something like that?”
Or, “Would you like me to do that to you?”
These are all questions, that when answered and explored, may bring you closer together and tell you how to improve your sex life.
Everyone feels aroused from time to time. Unfortunately, we don’t always feel stimulated at the same time. Erotic and seductive movies offer couples the chance to not just explore their intimate sexual desires together, they offer the opportunity of being sexually aroused together. Sharing together, as opposed to secrecy, could be the first step in your new relationship together. And with that in mind, “See you at the cinema. I’ll be the one with the gorgeous black lingerie and stilettos on!”
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