“Instead of saying, “I’m damaged, I’m broken, I have trust issues” say “I’m healing, I’m rediscovering myself, I’m starting over.” ― Horacio Jones
I have seen trust issues wreak havoc on many a relationship. However, here’s the deal about having trust issues- you can feel safe with those that are consistent, because a predictable pattern makes you feel comfortable. However, any occasion that throws the predictability off and challenges your expectation and comfort zone can bring the anxiety right back in. This is because trust issues do not have a fix outside of the womb they are birthed from. So, take charge and learn that you, yourself, are the source of what you fear and YOU are the only one who can defeat it.
Of course, trust offers no guarantees- given the fact that who you invest it in may bring in casualties, instead of yielding returns or that the one whom you don’t invest it in has to necessarily be a bad option- but as with love, so with trust. You don’t wager on the results. You just go all in, expecting it shall turn out okay. And the first step begins with you. If you feel you have trust issues and cannot let your guard down easy, maybe your zodiac readings shall help you learn that vulnerability is the only path that leads to bliss:
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Aries (March 21 – April 19)
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Your trust issues rise to the surface the moment things start to get serious. You’re so fretful about being left that you bring your relationship to an end before the other person gets the opportunity to do so. You not replying to their texts and treating them badly will prod them out of your life consequently. You don’t want to be left again- you would rather leave first.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Your trust issues arise when you find changes around you and your partner’s life. For example, when your partner finds a new job, you wonder if they might find someone attractive there or when they hit the gym looking good for someone. You like constancy and consistency. So, any slight changes rattle your nerves.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
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You always equate your actions with your partner’s. So it is strange that you start having trust issues when you find someone new who is attractive. Since when you’re checking out new people, so does your partner (or so you think). It’s uncertain whether it’s all that guilt that speaks up, but whenever you check out someone, you feel anxious and insecure about your relationship.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
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You think that every person you date is the one you’re going to marry in the long run and be forever-together. However, when you have fights with them, you doubt the persistence of your relationship. Thus, you begin to have trust issues regarding whether your relationship ever was flawless and that you’ll be left alone and heartbroken again.
Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22)
Your trust issues are triggered by your memories. You always bring your past to the limelight when comparing your present, and never seem to enjoy your present as a “present.” Sure, you had been hurt very brutally in the past and it’s justified if you’re anxious that it might happen again. But it absolutely doesn’t make any sense to blame all of you ex’s mistakes on your current partner. But it’s hard, right?
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Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22)
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Over-analyzing situations and assuming things lead to the outburst of trust issues in you. So when you see your partner smiling while reading a text, you wonder if someone’s trying to flirt or when your partner arrives home late, you wonder if they’re actually sleeping with someone. Instead of confronting your partner with such issues, you rather stay quiet and let your mind play all sorts of crazy scenarios.
Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22)
It is silly but your trust issues are triggered by strangers and celebs, the ones who appeal to you as more attractive and beautiful. Such vibrant faces make you feel self-effacing and hideous. Your insecurities rise to the surface and you start being self-conscious. Consequently, you can’t help but wonder why your partner would choose you over all those better options out there.
Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)
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You consider your surroundings as examples for everything. As a result of this, your family and friends seem to create such an impact on you that it triggers your trust issues. You find betrayal, lies and cheating everywhere- there are fights everywhere. Hence, despite your relationship running smoothly, you can’t help but wonder if it’s just a matter of time before everything breaks into pieces like everyone else’s.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)
Your trust issues are stimulated by some new steps in your relationship. Since you’re such an independent person and you’re used to being single, a massive modification in your life like moving in with someone or marrying them frighten you. They freak you out so much that you begin to question yourself regarding all this being a huge mistake and that you’ll end up being broken and hurt.
Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19)
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Self-doubt, your own dubiousness and uncertainty lead to a rise in trust issues in you. Whenever you screw something up at work or even in personal life, it breaks you physically, mentally and emotionally. It leads you to thinking that your partner is much better than you and that you don’t deserve them. Accordingly, you start wondering if you’ll mess up and ruin your relationship.
Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)
Your creative mind is an asset, but using it wisely is highly recommended. With your wild imagination, you assume your partner might leave you in the middle of the night or chop you off into pieces someday. This hyperactive imagination of yours might set you ablaze leading to the birth of trust issues. Don’t let it torture you and strangle your relationship to death.
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Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)
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Your friends are the ones who stimulate your trust issues with your partner. For example, when your partner is busy, they might say that you’re being cheated on. They bring up scenarios that you never would’ve thought of in your wildest of dreams and shouldn’t even be thinking of. Beware of your mind pertaining to such scenarios to murder your healthy relationship.
Are you grappling with trust issues too? You know what to do!
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