Born between May 21st and June 21st, Geminis are charming, intelligent, and dynamic people. A Gemini man, true to his zodiac glyph of the twins, can be both a suave gentleman and an earthy, ribald and salacious man. He is the one who shall offer multiple perspectives on any topic and can hold conversations on just about any topic. Bright, quick-witted, and mercurial, the Gemini man is many things but he is never boring. Jack of all trades, a Gemini man is a true wordsmith, and you shall see him wax lyrical about any mundane thing, when all of a sudden, he may stop to dwell on the ‘flip side.’ Don’t think he’s being flaky – he’s just doing what he does best – weighing the pros and cons with a cool, detached stance whilst being in possession of the facts and deploying a rational, logical approach.
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How do you date this man? What do you need to know about loving a Gemini man? Let’s find out:
1. Balance is his guiding compass
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A Gemini man will take the most balanced view of things – possessing an extremely equitable, objective, and impartial opinion on all matters, be it mundane or controversial. He extends this coin approach of tending to weigh the pros and cons of all matters to his personal realm too, thereby making him come across as a tad bit cold and unemotional – when all he’s doing is being plain logical. This is why …
2. Objective reasoning and logical approaches are his roving space
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And his perspicacious and unflinching capacity to be objective may exasperate his partner and make him come across as detached. But more often than not, his ability to weave magic with words, combined with his undying penchant for logic eliminates communication gaps, edifies his balanced approach toward arguments, and also bolsters his listening skills – making arguments a rarity! See – ‘flip side!’ and a great one at that!
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3. You may need to be adept at mental gymnastics to hold his interest
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Routine is anathema to the Gemini man – so if you want to hold his interest – dollops of variety are the way to go. A Gemini man is a man who may whisk you away to a rollicking time at a country dance and then, follow up with a black-tux evening for Beethoven! To outsiders, his appetite for diversity may seem to border on instability and fickleness but those close to him know that his fine taste for several palates of scintillating variety keeps him going. So, if you want to keep this man, you will have to have his cup brimming and overflowing with fun and variety.
4. Sex shall be a new adventure every day
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Playful in the bedroom, a Gemini man treats sex as an adventure. Like in all other things, he wants to try new toys, positions, and experiences. But do not take this to imply that he deploys this as an avenue for games. He is a generous lover and seldom uses any information at his disposal against his lover.
5. A Gemini man is the proverbial life of a party
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Charming, flirty, and irresistible, a Gemini man is a social butterfly. He can regale his audience with hilarious accounts of his travels or stun them with hair-rising stories of his adventures. A Gemini man likes being in social situations – in love with interesting company and thriving on exchange and collaboration. Charming and congenial, the Gemini man is popular and effusive with his friends. And if you’d want to catch his eye and keep his attention too, draw him in with witticism and carry on with a scintillating conversation. And that’s just one of the things you need to know about loving a Gemini man.
6. Sapiosexuality is his de facto dope
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Like all the other signs ruled by Air, the way to a Gemini man’s libido is through his mind. Mental games, rapid-fire riposte, sexual banter – all these things turn him on more than satin lingerie or candlelight ever will. His is a cerebral kind of sexuality, and he will use all the information at his disposal to please his partner satisfactorily in bed.
7. He can multi-task and how!
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A Gemini man excels at multi-tasking. So if there is a need to shuffle two jobs, play football each week, help out at the local parish on weekends, and pump iron at the gym three times a week while still being fast on his feet, nimble with his hands, and the smooth-talking charmer who woos you and how – you can be sure you are with a man who knows to manage it all! All you have to do is keep up!
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8. He is a man ruled by contradictory impulses
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While a Gemini man is a pro at handling multiple tasks with incredible efficiency, he may also suffer from burn-outs and at times leave a task midway. After all the quintessential twins in his nature are constantly grappling for a win. So if you are counting on your Gemini lover’s promise of helping you out with the Thanksgiving dinner on account of his self-acclaimed expertise in Southern cuisine, ensure that you have a backup plan ready. Such men are notorious for being quick to promise and not keeping it in the end. At the same time, rest assured that the excuse he will come up with for arriving late will seem entirely credible and he will salvage himself by playing the perfect charmer to your guests.
That’s all you need to know about loving a Gemini man. Good luck.
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