It’s a pretty common notion that men are quite simple, that they’re very reticent when it comes to expressing emotions, that they don’t need or want too much from anyone. While there might be some men who fit this description to a tee, there are also more complex men, who may or may not be reserved in expressing how they feel, and need and want as much as the next person. To be honest, every individual is unique in their own right, regardless of their gender, and each person has a different set of needs and wants.
While we won’t be delving into the intricacies of figuring out how a human mind works, we will be going into the nitty-gritty of what makes a man fall in love with a woman. Yes, this might just be the question you’ve been scratching your head over, eh? No more, because we have a broad idea of what makes a man tick and what makes him fall in love. But before that, know that subtlety wins every time, rather than going all out when it comes to impressing your guy.
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Also, do your assets, or the way you flirt with him have anything to do with a man falling in love with you? Sadly, no. When you go through our list of reasons for what makes a man fall in love, you’ll be quite surprised, because most of them are pretty unexpected. You wouldn’t even have considered them, in your dreams!
So let’s get to it, shall we?
1. Your demeanor
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Do you have an attitude? Or are you attitude-free? The latter, along with how easily you go with the flow, will definitely impress him. There’s just something about a girl who is easygoing that captures a guy’s attention like no other. These traits make it so very easy for him to fall in love with you.
2. Your kindness
If you’re the kind of person who puts others’ needs before your own, and takes care not to hurt someone deliberately, then you’re one heck of a person. And this turns him on immensely. He will realize that not only do you care for yourself and him, but anyone else who comes into your lives.
3. Your openness
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How open are you to trying new things? How open-minded are you in general? While you look for the same trait in men, they too look for the same in the woman they want to fall in love with. If you’re a woman who allows herself to her natural self with him, without judging, and just open to new things, then you’re very hard to resist for him.
4. Your treatment of his family
How well you treat his family and get along with them, is very important to him, especially if he’s super-close with them. And this gets doubled when it comes to his mother. If you can get along with his dear old mum, then he’ll hardly be able to resist falling in love with you!
5. Your treatment of his friends
It is said that friends are the family you choose, and if he is really close with his friends, then you’re task is clear. If you can get along with his chosen family and woo them the way you’ve done him, then he’ll be super impressed with you. All you have to do is treat them with love and care, and respect their place in your guy’s life, and you’re done.
6. Your interest in his life
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This might feel totally trivial, but when you ask a guy how his day was and show genuine interest in what he has to share, then you my friend, become irresistible to him. He may roll his eyes when you do so, but trust me, he will definitely be grinning ear to ear in his head because you’re showing him that you care.
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7. Your understanding
If you’ve understood his every gesture, every sigh, every expression, every nuance about him, then you’ve got it in the bag. This just goes to show him that you really ‘get him,’ without him having to spell it out for you. After a certain amount of time spent together, it’s natural pick up when he’s moody and wants to be left alone, and when he’s over the moon and wants to share the exciting news with you. You just have to be observant (which, sadly, is a rare trait that many people, regardless of their gender, lack).
8. Your sense of humor
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Everyone has a sense of humor, including you. It might be quirky, twisted, randy, or even normal, but a sense of humor sure does make you more attractive to him, and he won’t be able to keep himself from falling in love with you.
9. Your laughter at his jokes
While he appreciates your sense of humor, your ability to laugh at his jokes is important to him too. Even though he might know that his jokes are not that funny, he wants to be able to make you laugh. When he knows that you’ll laugh at his stupid, unfunny jokes, it’ll make him fall in love with you, for sure.
10. Your bedhead
Trust me, he couldn’t care less about you being dolled up all the time. When you’re unafraid to let him see your natural self, in bedhead, no less, that’s what makes a man fall in love with you. The sleepy way you roll over and pull the pillow over your head, the lazy stretch that you do before getting out of bed, your messed up hair and the sleep just seeping out of your beautiful eyes – he just won’t be able to resist you in all your au naturel glory.
11. Your tendency to use him as a comforter
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You’ve just woken up, but you’re still not sure you want to get out of bed and face the day ahead, and your need to snuggle up to him and feel warm and cozy and safe for a little while more, will make him fall in love with you all the more. Sigh!
12. Your non-judgmental attitude
If you’re the kind of person who treats everyone with respect and are pretty non-judgy, then he’ll think very highly of you and make you all that more attractive to him. Not just others, but he wants you to not be judgmental about him either. Whether it’s the little things that he starts and discards midway, or the fact that he doesn’t have a good idea of what he where he sees his life in a few years professionally, if you’re not judgmental, he’ll fall harder for you because you’re open-minded enough to accept him with his flaws and all.
13. Your (non-existent) cooking skills
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Whether you’re trying to recreate his favorite dish that his mum used to make, or create something with your own hands, it won’t matter to him and he’ll appreciate it very much. It’s the thought behind the gesture that he’ll see and admire. It’s pretty hard not to fall in love with someone who cares enough to cook him or make him something, right?
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14. Your independence
You are a strong, independent woman who can take care of herself, come what may. This attitude of yours and the way you gear up for whatever life may throw at you without cowering in the corner, is what impresses him the most. What’s not to love about that, eh?
This list on what makes a man fall in love with you might seem like a woefully simple way of describing something as complex as falling in love, but these sure do play a large role in making a guy fall in love with you. Because these show that you actually care, that these seemingly ordinary, everyday gestures are important in the larger scheme of things. So go forth and make him fall in love with you!
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